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Measure Twice Cut Once

It was my dad’s motto any time he had opportunity to teach me about anything to do with wood. I use the same wisdom in most areas of life ā€” Caution when doing anything permanent. So, any talk about measuring or cutting with regard to my penis tends to give me wildly conflicting emotions. Get the picture?

Sure, I’m talking about circumcision. I’d never intended to broach that subject on Orgasmic Guy, but when I read RollingDoughnut’s comment the other day, it occurred to me that this, too is societal sexual repression. First, Tony at RollingDoughnut says,

Genital mutilation ā€” of males and females ā€” began in America as a method to prevent masturbation, among many grand claims by its advocates.

That is likely mostly true. Tony argues that any kind of infant change of genitalia is attempt to control sexuality. And, I’d say that is also essentially true. There are as many reasons we in America pose for male circumcision. Among them, HIV control, ease in cleaning the penis, appearance, sensitivity, because they did it in the Bible, etc.

Most of those reasons are pretty lame. The real reason we circumcise is to make our boys look and feel the way we’ve learned from our society to be “right”.

Why, I wonder, would an uncut penis be “wrong”? I wonder why my parents thought that and I wonder why I thought that when our boys were born.

Then a thought occurred to me.

When our boys were born and we decided to have them circumcised, the most compelling reason was to that they would look like me. It seems to be a really strange reason, but it’s not so strange because I suspect that, like me, most American’s had not actually seen an uncircumcised penis ā€” close up, that is. Again, that sounds really strange, but at that time I had never seen a live uncut penis. I doubt my parents had either. Now, a few years later, the decision to not circumcise boys is more common.

And that, I think, is the reason circumcision is such a controversy. A cut penis is considered American and what we know. It’s a moral issue for some reflecting a mark self-righteousness. For others a cut penis is a religious issue identifying with children of Israel who circumcised their men and boys to mark an agreement with God. Maybe, a circumcised penis makes a boy more likely to become a godly man? An uncut penis on the other hand is considered to belong to others who are not from among us.

A dramatic symptom of ethnocentrism is to hold in disdain those things with which you are not familiar. Foods, dress, smells, sounds and ideas all cause sheltered Americans to recoil with fear and judgment. An uncut penis is no different. It compels those ignorant of cultures other than their own to change it to something familiar and, safe. Clearly, it was my motivation.

I’d think differently were I to be making the decision now. I don’t regret being circumcised myself or that my boys are. It’s what we are. What I think is regrettable is that decisions of circumcision are almost always made for another. And there is the place where sexual repression occurs. The controlling tide of our society continues because of our sexual and cultural fear.

There was another thing my dad said regarding woodwork. It was a joke.

I cut it off twice and it’s still too short!

If we continue to cut boys’ penises simply to make them like all the rest of us, the sexual maturity of our western culture will remain sadly ā€¦ short.

Add comment November 15th, 2008

Orgasmic Guy: Unleashed! eBook Released!

After about nine months of work, I’ve had my baby! Thank you! Thank you! We’ve named him Orgasmic Guy: Unleash the Truth of Male Sexuality! It’s a long name, I know, but after this much work and agony, this kid deserves a long name.

Orgasmic Guy: Unleash is an eBook full of great stuff that will literally liberate your sexuality:

If you find yourself stuck in a rut because of strange attitudes you endured as a child or young guy, this book will break you free.
If you’re in a religious environment that takes a position of don’t do this, don’t do that rather than helping you grow in your sexuality, then This book is for you!
It’s time to grow sexually and reorient your sexuality with the rest of your life! Is it possible that your sexuality is only a small piece of your life’s pie? Read Orgasmic Guy: Unleash!
If your sex life in your marriage has gone even a little cool, this book will help you!
If you are single, thinking about getting married or, never want to get married, you are a sexual guy and this book is for you!
If you want to enlarge, deepen, and intensify your orgasm, this book is undoubtedly for you!

Guys, enjoy the book. Take advantage of my introductory promo right now. I promise you’ll be glad you did. You’re sexual life will never be the same. Click here for Orgasmic Guy: Unleash the Hidden Truth of Male Sexuality!

Peace!

Sean

Add comment July 17th, 2008

Orgasmic Guy e-Book Imminent

She’s gonna blow! could be said about a lot of things: volcano, dynamite in a mineshaft, a pregnant woman. And speaking of a pregnant woman, I think I can relate more now than when we (my wife, really!) bore our boys. Nine months of anticipation, deep gratitude, fear of failure, disorientation and feeling fat is more than I thought I could endure. A book is like a baby. You don’t do a lot of other things. Every direction you turn reminds you of the stack of notebooks and file full of incomplete sometimes incoherent chapters. Everything anyone says reminds you of an idea you’ve been turning over and over like a pork roast that won’t get done. Everything you see could possibly be the illustration you were looking for.

Guys, I’m fully effaced, about nine centimeters and contractions are really really close. Yep, Orgasmic Guy e-Book is on it’s way in just a few days. I’m totally happy with how it’s turned out and I know you’ll like it.

It’s about sex: guy sex. You know, sex, but only from a guy perspective.Ā It’s a break-away book that tears our boat of guy sex from the piers that held us captive. It’s a book of liberation, straight up talk, and tell it like it is honesty.

I talk about what it is in our culture that makes us so burdened with guilt and shame about our guy sexuality and how to liberate from it.
How to bury the dead horse of debate on masturbation and tell it like it is.
Sexual listening and what it will do for intercourse, masturbation, and your spiritual life.
Why religion and sex are so at odds with one another and how to make peace.
Orgasm when you want as long as you want.
How God is way more affirming of guy sexuality than you think and how to acknowledge him as part of your sexuality.
Solo sex.
End of the myth that sex is best for the young. How to care sexually.

Watch for the book! Jot me a note if you want me to let you know when it’s ready. Write me here.

Sean

Add comment July 8th, 2008

Your Fellow Orgasmic Guy Visitors

Sometimes when I’m surfing the web I wonder who else is visiting these sites and what they’re looking for. Do you ever think like that? Probably. But you’d be surprised how many guys are searching the web using the exact same keywords that you are.

I’m not a stat junkie, but occasionally on my sites, I find it not only interesting but helpful to find out who is visiting, which pages they’re reading and how they got to the site.

Most Orgasmic Guy visitors right now are interested in masturbation tips or masturbation techniques. I find it interesting how many guys misspell masturbation. They spell it maturbation. I’ve of course misspelled it once in the meta-tags and also on a page so the search engines will find it. Apparently I’ve done a good job of that since Orgasmic Guy is pretty highly ranked for those searches.

Other guys are looking for “male orgasm” and various configurations of that. I get the impression that guys are looking for a more meaningful orgasm. It sounds a bit like they’re tired of just getting off.

Thirdly, a lot of guys are looking for the articles on male sexuality and various configurations of those keywords. Orgasmic Guy isn’t the highest ranked on all search engines for these words even though it’s our main keyword. We’re still getting plenty of traffic for “male sexuality” and for that I’m grateful. I’ll write lots more on male sexuality. It’ll be a long time before we exhaust that topic.

Also, it seems Orgasmic Guy has either been around long enough to leave an impression of the name in people’s minds or “orgasmic guy” is a good search term. I’m leaning toward the former because I don’t recall people using that as a keyword in the beginning.

The last interesting observation is that Orgasmic Guy gets a lot of searches using the word “guy” rather than male or men. It’s been my slant to the site that it be a guy site rather than a men’s site. And those are the kinds of visitors the site is getting. Guys that talk like guys. I guess I’ve found a certain commonness, basicness and honesty in the word guy rather than the word man.

For the most part I’m concluding that you, the visitors to Orgasmic Guy are less interested in philosophizing about male sexuality and what guys think about male sexuality than you are interested in what other guys do. At least that’s what the stats tell me. And I’m inclined to think that’s true. When I talk to guys in person, as painful as it is to be blunt and ask, guys eventually hint and dance about the conversation till they’re hearing what other guys do in their sexuality. I think that’s perfectly normal. Guys want to know that they’re like all other guys when it comes to their male sexuality and male sexual fulfillment.

There you are. You’re an Orgasmic Guy visitor. You got here the same way the other guys got here. Welcome!

Sean
Orgasmic Guy

Add comment March 14th, 2007

A Guy and His Toys

Women have always had a glorious history of enjoying sex toys. I suspect women’s sex toy traditions go back centuries before plain paper packages. I think the joy a woman gets from her vibe or dildo is in many ways more fulfilling to her guy than it is even to her. The point is this: men want women to enjoy deep satisfaction from their sexuality. A women’s enjoyment of her sexuality is really an important part of male sexuality, and that’s why men buy sex toys for their lovers.

We guys are always on the hunt for something new — new adventures, new places to explore, new toys and we love to share what we find with our beloved. That’s just the nature of guys.

When it comes to shopping for sex toys, there’s another factor besides adventure — mischieviousness. I bought a couple toys in a sex shop a while back before I ever bought anything on line. I bought a beautiful red jelly cock ring with these great nubs. It keeps me really hard and gives her incredible pleasure. I also bought her a mini vibe. It’s a wonderful little gadget that does all kinds of cool stuff.

I told a couple of friends about my visit to this shop and my purchases. I had to grin at their reaction. “You went where? You bought what?” I’m not sure what exactly drove me or surprised my friends, but I do know that there’s as much adventure in buying it as there is in trying it. I’ve got to say, it’s been fun. I’m a regular on-line shopper now. I’ve found some great buys and fun sex toys on MyPleasure . Check it out yourself.

The days are changing, though. Now, I think male sex toys are as popular as those for women. And ladies are buying them for their guys. There’s a new attitude about sexuality. It doesn’t have as much of that mischievious overtone to it any longer. It’s almost as common for a woman to buy her husband a masturbator online as it would be for a guy to buy his wife a vibe or some flavored lube. I still think men are the main shoppers, though. Remember there’s that driving adventure.

Sean
Orgasmic Guy

Add comment March 6th, 2007

Kama Sutra Candy

Snickers This one is contributed by Mitch Hiker. I think he’s got a handle on the multi-orgasmic technique and he’s no doubt seen more than a few. Thanks for the imagination candy, Mitch!

Get ready to tease your senses with Kama Sutra candy.

If you can do this, you will have mastered the multi-orgasmic art of self-control. You’ll be able to accomplish anything.

1. Unwrap one of those Halloween bite-sized Snickers bars
2. Pop it in your mouth
3. Suck on it until it’s nothing but peanuts.
4. No chewing allowed.

All of your body’s organs will scream at you to chew, chew, chew. But with all of the discipline you can muster, you slowly let the candy bar melt away. First the chocolate goes, than the gooey stuff, and finally the humble little peanuts. Life will never be the same again.

When you are done, you can chew up the peanuts if you want to.

Now, do this together with your wife. Get in to that hot tub, close your eyes and flood your senses. Neither of you will be the same.

Mitch

Add comment January 8th, 2007

Thanks, I’m not Hungry

Adam and Eve You know we give Eve a lot of crap for leading us guys like the pied piper down the lane of original sin. What if Adam had simply said, “Thanks I’m not hungry right now, but can we make love?” I’m really wondering if a lot of pain in our world would be avoided if we simply made love with our wives instead of doing — whatever — shopping; renovating the basement; watching a DVD; talking about the neighbors. Lose all the junk in life and make love. I’m not saying think about it, talk about it, read a book about it or even suggest it. Just do it. Nike kind of stuff.

Eve gets the raspberries because she had the dreaded conversation with the devil and couldn’t resist the urge to bring home a bag of his delicious apples. She offered the stuff to Adam. The point is that you don’t have to take everything offered to you in life — even if it seems relatively harmless. Renovating the basement could be harmless, but if it means you don’t make love, it’s deadly. Unfortunately, I think sexuality gets squeezed out of life because there are so many other things that seem important but really aren’t.

Possibly Adam was afraid of how he’d look if he didn’t take what Eve was offering him. Chicken. Who knows if she’d have called him a loser or not, but he buckled. They should have been making love. They’d have been on the same page, thinking the same thoughts, holding the same life values. She’d have known it wasn’t his thing to eat devil apples and she’d have never bought them. She’d have been at home with him doing it on the beach.
Or maybe Eve was bored. She and Adam weren’t all that intimately involved and she had too much time on her hands and had the conversation with the devil and probably even asked his advice. If you’re married and you’re not acting married, sooner or later one of you is going to have that conversation with the devil and you’ll fall sucker to the devil’s solutions. You’ll come home with apples. And since Adam was the kind of guy to say, “Well, if it’s what you really want, honey — well, ok,” they didn’t right there roll in the ferns. They should have. We’d all be better off today.

Add comment December 19th, 2006

On the Sixth Day God Created Testosterone

If God created me, my body and my mind, then He created all the sexual passion that’s rushing through me. Don’t tell me it’s a curse, of the devil, or something I’ve just got to “get over”. There’s a reason for it, and I think every guy would do well to find out just why God left him with this raging fire inside. Testosterone Dive

It’s in vogue to be a modern, sensitive kind of guy these days, but I think it’s a little bit contrary to how we’re cut out. That testosterone is the stuff that gives men the strange characteristics that make men … well men!

Men are risk takers, love danger, and more often than not, ignore pain. Testosterone is what makes us aggressive both in business and in bed. It’s what gives us the ability to persuade someone into a big buck contract as well as persuade our dear wives to make love on the beach under the stars. Risk and conquest. Danger and innovation.

Really, it’s the guy that needs to keep the passion ablaze in a marriage because it’s his God-given, male, sexual aggression which captures the softer, safer sexual nature of a women. Men are physically created for aggression: his penis gives and takes control while her vagina receives and submits to his love. Knowing that makes us confident in our role. Passivity and the modern, sensitive, caring guy isn’t always the best way. Kindness is always right, but a sexually passive guy lets sexuality die.

In the same way, it’s the man who recreates the sexual relationship in a couple. Just like the creative side of a woman creates and recreates a home, the guy keeps sex interesting. Think of it — you bring home a new sex toy and she looks at you cross-eyed. “You want me to do what?” Hey dude, don’t be dissuaded. It’s your God-given role in the sexual relationship! Paint the picture bigger, bolder, better! She’ll love it. Give it time.

4 comments November 1st, 2006

Nudge and a Smile

Some days a guy just stuns himself with absolute genius! The other day was fast becoming a real drag. Work was tedious at best and not much was going the way it should. And I just wasn’t happy. Never been there?

I decided to try something. What was pure depression quickly turned out to be pure genius. I slipped in the other room took my Aneros Helix prostate massager, lubed it up and slipped it in. That sucker just reached out and grabbed my prostate. I nearly doubled over in pleasure. It has that fantastic little bump on the front of it. I felt a shudder run up and down my body, regained my composure, pulled my jeans back up and went back to work.

Sure, I’ve always used my Aneros for just the Aneros — you know, you lay down, concentrate and wait for the Super “O”. It never occurred to me before to simply enjoy it while I was busy doing something else. My day went tons better because every time I moved, my prostate got a little nudge. I could squeeze my Aneros Helix, give my prostate a big nudge and smile.

Sexuality isn’t something that’s saved for a moment, experienced in a moment, and forgotten until the next. My Aneros moment reminds me that sexuality, like spirituality is a realm we live in always.
OG

Sean

1 comment October 15th, 2006

Morning Salute

I remember when I was a kid and I’d have an erection in the morning, I had to do acrobats to pee in the toilet. It scared me because I thought something was really wrong, and there was no way I was going to ask anyone about it.

Who thought up this morning hard-on thing anyway, and why are we guys blessed with it? Sure sometimes it’s really pleasant to wake up feeling aroused raring to go, but if you’re not exactly a leisure morning person it really gets in the way. It’s a hassle if you’re bunking with your buddies — say hunting or fishing — and you get up in the morning with a stick in your undies. Did you ever try to hide it? That’s a trick. Where in the heck do you put it when it’s three times it’s usual size and hard as a rock? It’s not like no one else ever gets one, but I think it’s just not polite to flaunt your morning stiffy.

A couple of years ago a guy in Europe told me that the slang word for morning erection in one Scandinavian language was the same word as evening milk and cookes in another Scandinavian language. I can see where that could complicate international relations in some settings. Especially, if your bud over the border invites you to join him for a spot of tea and cookies in the evening. I’d politely decline.

It’s a disappointment though when the old pal down there doesn’t greet you in the morning. Actually, it can be a sign of stress, fatigue or other possible concerns. Don’t take that too seriously, though. Guys have phases that come and go and if the boy doesn’t get up when you do, don’t give it too much thought. Just get more sleep.

Really, the morning salute is an assurance that it’s six o’clock and all is well. All systems are “go” and you can anticipate another great day.

OG,

Sean

Add comment October 10th, 2006

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