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A Student of Messy Sexuality

To whom did someone give the task of tidying up sexuality? Schools tried it. Churches tried it. Legislators tried it. Zillions of authors tried it. Prudish mothers tried it.

It can’t be done.

Thank God.

I think I’ve finally concluded that sexuality is messy just like the rest of  life, love, God and friends.

My wife  and I read [...]

Consummating A Home

With every new destination comes a decision to marry it or room with it. We moved to a new home and new neighborhood this past weekend. I decided to marry this one.

Seriously, it’s like that for me. The first days in our new home have been a honeymoon of making love, getting to know one [...]

Sex Talk In Church

When you talk about sex and church in the same sentence, for most folks, hairs go up on the back of their necks.

Heck, it does for me, too.

In our North American culture, sex and church go together like water and oil. Merlot and fish. Obama and Palin. S&M and Every Man’s Battle.

In the recent years [...]

Altered Sensations

I’ve had days when I’ve come home and what I was counting on to comfort me wasn’t there — a cold beer, a nap on the couch, twenty minutes to stroke. Life is full of mild disappointments. You get over it. You learn to prepare better or just learn to cope.

The stakes are miles higher [...]

Hacked!

I was hovering over a post on my Google desktop and I noticed this mishmash of spam gunk coming from the title of my last gorgeous Rhythm post. What the heck?

Here I am launching a new book, making a lot of changes and now this? Spam in my site? A little reading brought to light [...]

Soul Rhythm

I love it when performing musicians want you to clap in rhythm with the music. I’m the guy that’s clapping on the off beat or even worse not on any beat. I work at it for a few seconds and I finally get in sync with everyone else.

If there’s anything I’ve consistently struggled to do [...]

Measure Twice Cut Once

It was my dad’s motto any time he had opportunity to teach me about anything to do with wood. I use the same wisdom in most areas of life — Caution when doing anything permanent. So, any talk about measuring or cutting with regard to my penis tends to give me wildly conflicting emotions. Get [...]

Orgasmic Guy: Unleashed! eBook Released!

After about nine months of work, I’ve had my baby! Thank you! Thank you! We’ve named him Orgasmic Guy: Unleash the Truth of Male Sexuality! It’s a long name, I know, but after this much work and agony, this kid deserves a long name.

Orgasmic Guy: Unleash is an eBook full of great stuff that will [...]

Orgasmic Guy e-Book Imminent

She’s gonna blow! could be said about a lot of things: volcano, dynamite in a mineshaft, a pregnant woman. And speaking of a pregnant woman, I think I can relate more now than when we (my wife, really!) bore our boys. Nine months of anticipation, deep gratitude, fear of failure, disorientation and feeling fat is [...]

Your Fellow Orgasmic Guy Visitors

Sometimes when I’m surfing the web I wonder who else is visiting these sites and what they’re looking for. Do you ever think like that? Probably. But you’d be surprised how many guys are searching the web using the exact same keywords that you are.

I’m not a stat junkie, but occasionally on my sites, I [...]